One of the most common questions I’m asked by parents is, “What can I do to help my child who stammers?” As parent myself, I understand how important it is to help our children feel confident and comfortable when they speak.

The good news is, there are lots of meaningful ways you can support your child who stammers (also known as “stutters”). Here are a few to get you started:

1. Give Them Time
One of the most powerful things you can do is pause and give your child time to speak. Try not to finish their sentences or rush them. Your calm patience tells them, “I’m listening. Take your time.”

2. Focus on Connection
Children thrive when they feel heard and accepted. Instead of asking them to “slow down” or “speak clearly,” focus on what they’re saying rather than how they say it. Join them in play, draw together or read their favourite book without pressure to talk in a certain way.

3. Celebrate Who They Are
Your child is so much more than their speech. Notice and praise their creativity, kindness, humour or curiosity. Building confidence in all areas of life helps them feel proud of who they are, including the way they speak.

4. Show Acceptance
Let your child know that it’s okay to stammer. Everyone speaks differently and that’s what makes us unique. Hearing that message from you can make a huge difference to their confidence and self-esteem.

If you would like further information and support, I have created free, easy-to-read parent guides all about supporting children who stammer, from toddlers through to teens. You can download your free guide here

I have also included some frequently asked questions about stammering that you may find helpful too:

Should I correct my child’s speech if they stammer?

No, it is best not to correct or tell your child to “slow down” or “speak clearly.” This can increase pressure and make talking feel harder. Instead, focus on what they’re saying, listen patiently and let them know you are interested in their ideas.

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Will my child grow out of stammering?

The short answer is, we don’t know. Many children stop stammering as they become older, especially if stammering begins in the preschool years. For others, stammering can continue in different ways as they become older. Every child is unique. It can be helpful to seek early advice from a speech and language therapist if you are unsure.

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When should I seek help from a speech and language therapist?

If your child’s stammer is affecting their confidence, their ability to say what they want to say or their speech is sounding more effortful (you may notice physical tension around their mouth or in their body) it may be a good idea to speak to a qualified speech and language therapist. Early support can make a big difference and therapy can help you learn ways to support your child’s communication at home.

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